"Honey. It's time to let this one go. He's not going to change and he is in for a lifetime of trouble. You can't save him and the truth be told, you're going to end up dead or in jail if you keep messing with this guy. It's better to be alone than in bad company."
Do As I Say Not As I Do: This is the ultimate sign of an abuser. An emotional abuser can say anything to you, and behave any way they want BUT if you repeat that behavior towards THEM...you might as well have started world war three. They will absolutely lose their minds. Emotional abusers can dish it but they can't take it.