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Dear Empath, stop loving the wrong people

A LOVING MISCONCEPTION As Empaths we believe in BIG love, romantic love, Hollywood romanticized love, poetic love, and of course EPIC love! We believe that we should love even when it is not reciprocated, and sometimes, is at the detriment to our happiness and personal safety. The idea of "loving" people at its most basic level is really more about having a loving kindness attitude toward ... Read the Post

If you believe that you must "save" someone, then the universe will send you someone who needs to be saved.  If you feel as though you are not good enough, the universe will send you people and situations that reinforce this idea that you are not good enough.  And if you truly believe that you are not deserving of love, then the law of attraction will bring unto you, those who prove that you are correct.  BUT!  If you believe you are worthy of love, and  that you ARE good enough, all the universe will conspire to give you what you need.

Karma’s a bitch, but you don’t have to be

Many moons ago in a land far, far away called "My Twenties", my now very ex- boyfriend Matt and I were on a trip to California to see some friends.  We ended up at the Rose Bowl which was not exactly my idea of a vacation but happy boyfriend...well happy boyfriend? Anyway,  while there, we met a sexy little minx who we'll call "Felicity."  Felicity was dating one of Matt's friends, a rather dense ... Read the Post

Felicity was dating one of Matt's friends, a rather dense boy whose talents including smashing beer cans on his face. As I settled into my seat trying to put on my best game face, I glanced over and noticed my notoriously unfaithful ex and this cute little thing locking eyes.  It was in that very moment I realized, I  was unceremoniously fucked.

Better off alone than in bad company

I have always been attracted to bad boys.  I would guess most of us are at some point or another but I had the disease to the detriment of my own well being. I'm eighteen years old and hanging out with this guy *Ted.  By all accounts Ted seemed to have it all (at least by teenage standards).  Nice apartment, car, and friends who adored him.  He seemed nice, and I really had a crush on him.  So as ... Read the Post

"Honey.  It's time to let this one go.  He's not going to change and he is in for a lifetime of trouble.  You can't save him and the truth be told, you're going to end up dead or in jail if you keep messing with this guy.  It's better to be alone than in bad company."

Don’t Judge People on The Opinions Of Others

I received an email recently from a woman named "Marta" who was having difficulty with a woman in her town.  We went back and forth and she agreed to let me share her story.  I have removed names.  Here is an excerpt from her letter: For two years I have been working with this "woman".  We became fast friends and I truly liked her, but noticed she had this habit of always talking badly about ... Read the Post

Those who listen and act on idle gossip are in some ways worse than the person spreading it. Insecure people follow the crowd, they don't have the ability to think for themselves and should therefore be avoided.  You don't want to be associated with obsequious pions willing to conform to the ideals of morons.