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Why being vulnerable is awesome

"Don't cry, crying is a sign of weakness." "Don't be so emotional." "Learn how to hide your feelings." These are just a few examples of scripts that we have been told, or perhaps tell ourselves which can really wreak havoc on our sensitive souls.  We are made to believe, through these negative thoughts that there is something inherently wrong with us for feeling our emotions and god forbid, ... Read the Post

Your feelings, emotions, and expressions thereof make other people uncomfortable.  That's it.  Essentially these three phrases above (and many more) are designed to help the person you are being vulnerable to escape your emotions which they are not willing to deal with.  It has nothing to do with you as a person.  Nothing to do with your being weak, or emotionally unstable.  No, it has to do with other people not wanting to confront their own emotions by having to deal with yours.

Dear Empath, stop loving the wrong people

A LOVING MISCONCEPTION As Empaths we believe in BIG love, romantic love, Hollywood romanticized love, poetic love, and of course EPIC love! We believe that we should love even when it is not reciprocated, and sometimes, is at the detriment to our happiness and personal safety. The idea of "loving" people at its most basic level is really more about having a loving kindness attitude toward ... Read the Post

If you believe that you must "save" someone, then the universe will send you someone who needs to be saved.  If you feel as though you are not good enough, the universe will send you people and situations that reinforce this idea that you are not good enough.  And if you truly believe that you are not deserving of love, then the law of attraction will bring unto you, those who prove that you are correct.  BUT!  If you believe you are worthy of love, and  that you ARE good enough, all the universe will conspire to give you what you need.

Emotional Abusers: When the bruises are on the inside

It is the most prevalent type of terrorism.  It isn't coming from some foreign country or radical militia group, it comes from the very people we call friends, boss, co-workers and family, and often times by those we can't help but love. I have had the pleasure in my life thus far, to be the recipient of this type of abuse, on many occasions from multiple persons.  It is in some ways the most ... Read the Post

Do As I Say Not As I Do:  This is the ultimate sign of an abuser.  An emotional abuser can say anything to you, and behave any way they want BUT if you repeat that behavior towards THEM...you might as well have started world war three.  They will absolutely lose their minds.  Emotional abusers can dish it but they can't take it. 

Live Through Your Heart

My most recent foray into the world of the unknown was via a lovely woman we'll call Kayla.  As per usual, I was pacing restlessly in my home, jonesing for a psychic fix.  As I've gotten older, my time between readings has gotten significantly shorter.  Perhaps this is due to my new found trust of my own gift, or my refusal to pay the ridiculous fees often associated with sub par talent. So ... Read the Post

"Honey, when we die, and we all finally go to the other side, no one there cares how much money we had, how insta-famous we were, how many parties we went to, how many people liked us on FB or how many phony baloney friendships we had, all they wanna know is how much did you love?